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One Opportunity

April 26th, 2007 · 4 Comments

Eminem said… “Look, if you had one shot, or one opportunity – To seize everything you ever wanted-One moment – Would you capture it or just let it slip?”

In the western world we are bombarded with pressure to do the best we can for ourselves. To make our lives as meaningful and prosperous as possible. We spend so much time thinking about ourselves and our futures. This is all good, but once in a while we need to reflect on how lucky we are to even have the opportunities that we were blessed with. So many of us complain about having too many choices while others have little or no choice in how to lead their lives.

DSC05553The man on the left is Declan Murphy. He’s a teacher from Ireland living in Nepal. I met him in a coffee shop. Four years ago Declan started a tiny organisation called Just One. Since then they have been helping many impoverished street kids from the Thamel area of Kathmandu get back to school, regain their childhood, and be reincorporated into their families and villages. You can read more about his mission on the Just One website, which I will be updating over the next few weeks. Afterwards I will be traveling to a village outside of Kathmandu to do some short-term teaching at the local government school.

I’m fortunate that Declan has allowed me to tag along with him and his small team. In the last 3 days we visited a village out in the middle of nowhere in order to deliver some hope along with school uniforms and fees for one of the kids. We spent the night with their family and the experience is already changing the way I look and judge my own life. You can check out some of the photos here.

I promise that there will be more updates about this in the coming weeks. For now, I have to go get ready for our next trip.

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4 responses so far ↓

  • so i just read a book called “the first man-made man” about the first sex change operation and subsequent such changes from the 1940s and ’50s. (http://www.amazon.com/First-Man-Made-Man-Twentieth-Century-Revolution/dp/1596910151)

    this woman who became a man eventually chose to become a doctor, and he went on to help facilitate people who wanted to change sexes as badly as he did. he fell in love, in fact, with a man transitioning to a woman, possibly because he could not find a person or place to fit himself with.

    he ended up studying buddhism with monks in india–perhaps the only place in the 1950s where he could escape from his notoriety and find a way to understand who he was. he died there.

    anyway, i thought you might enjoy the read.
    xo.
    mcbickle

  • Sounds inspiring. I’ll have to consultmy guru about that.

    In 2004 I worked for a Japanese man who was infatuated with transexuals. He had a big file-folder with all kinds of research he had done on the subject. He also liked to date post-ops.

    He contested that they were actually women born in men’s bodies. THat their brain had developed into a female brain, but their body did not complete the transition.

    He used to take us to tranny shows in Tokyo. Its a very fascinating scene. The shows were great.

  • NAmaste,

    I really love all your pictures. I am so overwhelmed. I was born in Kathmandu, and let for USA about 10 years ago. Its so pure and natural. I so much appreciate it and eager to be now. Its so pure form of life. Houses made of mud & stones. Fresh air, streams, tree, smiley faces, its just so lovely. I thank you for me to be able to visualize and realize true beauty of villages & nature of Nepal. My warm greetings & good luck to you, my friend.

  • Thanks Niki… i’m looking forward to having Dal Bhat with your family. Ill contact youagain when i get to KTM.

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